Showing posts with label LifeStyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LifeStyle. Show all posts

Surprise Invitation To Disneyland With A Look That Says 'I'm notimpressed'

It is every little girl's dream to go to Disneyland, or so this well intentioned mother thought.

But when she told her daughters they were going on a surprise trip to see Mickey Mouse and co, the stunned, silent reaction of one of her children did not give that impression.

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When fun-loving parent Katie Clem, 33, from Salt Lake City,


 Utah, decided to treat her kids with a spontaneous trip to the famous theme park, she filmed what she thought would be moment of double joy.

But her shock holiday news was met with a hilarious deadpan glare by Chloe, 2, who seemed less than enthusiastic about the idea.

In the clip, Older sister Lily, 10, is seen cuddling her stuffed bear called Duffy and dreading going to school where she is unable to take her favourite teddy.


As the camera pans, younger sister Chloe is staring out of the window, oblivious to the surprise which is about to unfold.

When Lily's dad drives past her school, she begins to laugh and hopefully shouts; 'Yay, no school!'
But her optimistic giggles turn to tears of joy when her mommy tells the pair: 'You want to ditch school? Okay, let's ditch school and go to Disneyland'.

While hysterical Lily repeatedly asks her mom: 'Are you serious?!' her deadpan younger sister simply fires a look as if to question whether her mother has lost her mind.

Squinting with one eye, suspicious Chloe doesn't say a word to the announcement, instead, she simply looks warily into the camera as if she has just been given some bad news.

The younger sister's reaction was highlighted by viewers on YouTube who eventually saw the clip go viral.

Speaking of her daughter's reactions, Katie said they were a perfect representation of her daughter's different characters.

Speaking to Good Morning America, she said: 'That is so funny to me, because that’s what Chloe does, a little stink face'.

'She’s staring at Lily like, ‘What is your problem?’

'It wasn’t a big deal to me at the time, but to see the reaction of people liking Chloe’s response is pretty funny.

'Lily has always been like that since she was Chloe’s age. She’s very emotional, wears her heart on her sleeve.

'But Chloe is my little danger kid. She’s just like, ‘Yeah, whatever.’ I don’t even have any words for it.”

The hilarious video has since been viewed over 300,000 times on YouTube.

Family Friendly Paradise in Fiji

Travel writer Fiona Harper discovers one of her all-time favourite hotel rooms and more at the Jean-Michel Cousteau Resort in Fiji. 

“Sorry I’m late, I fell asleep on the massage table.” It’s not a bad excuse is it? Slick with scented Pure Fijian body oil and looking slightly unkempt thanks to ‘spa hair’, I’ve kept my fellow passengers waiting for our jaunt to Nakawaga rainforest and waterfall.

Lulled to sleep post massage, in true ‘Fiji time’ therapist Selai allowed me to slumber on for 35 minutes before I woke myself embarrassingly by snoring. It’s usual for the masseuse to give a gentle yet firm shake a few minutes after a massage is complete. But not today. Which sort of sums up the attitude of many Fijians whose mantra seems to be ‘take your time’, reflecting their warm generous nature, where nothing is rushed, knowing that everything happens eventually.

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This attitude is in abundance, in the nicest possible way, at Jean-Michel Cousteau Resort, a few minutes from downtown Savusavu on the island of Vanua Levu. A serious contender for one of the finest family friendly resorts on the planet, every child is allocated their own private nanny upon arrival. Predominantly women (though I’m sure a male nanny would be available if requested – nothing is too much trouble at JMC), their orange and blue shirts are spotted everywhere. Each has a young child in their arms, riding their backs, walking hand in hand or poking around the shallows on the beach. It’s hands on, interactive child minding with a subtle environmental educational approach, that enables parents to share adult time with eachother, rekindling romance or allowing time to talk uninterrupted, knowing their kids are in the very best hands.

While many Kids Clubs are tacked on as an afterthought at JMC, the Bula Club is one of its main features, taking up a good portion of the vast landscaped grounds. With its own commercial kitchen, swimming pool, waterslide, tree house (which looks like so much fun I’m tempted to climb into it myself), miniature tennis court, table tennis table, crèche, quiet areas and noisy areas, it’s the key to extraordinary repeat guest numbers. Indeed, some families have been spending annual holidays here for years. Beyond the kid’s facilities, the attraction for adults is equally enticing, combining luxurious bures, fine food, child-free serenity zones, activities aplenty or peaceful daybeds for doing absolutely nothing. Designed on a traditional Fijian village, it’s a winning combination that ensures JMC appears on ‘best of’ lists worldwide.

In a crowded field of would be contenders there’s a plethora of resorts laying claim to offering the very best hotel rooms, service and facilities. But what qualifies as ‘best’? And who is qualified to make this claim anyway? Sure there are strict criteria when it comes to hotel star ratings that determine whether a property rates (and retains) its coveted five stars or is relegated lesser status. But a star rating is not necessarily the best indicator.

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So, while any ‘best’ assessment or list is subjective, I’m prepared to risk the wrath of more worldly travellers and place The Villa (or simply Bure 25) at Jean Michel Cousteau Resort Fiji in my list of Best Hotel Rooms. Why?

Firstly, for the rather unsexy reasons of an abundance of natural light and ventilation – an absolute essential in the tropics. I have a love/hate relationship with air conditioning, preferring the sensation and aromas of tropic-infused air wafting over warm bare skin. Feeling cold is not a sensation I embrace whilst in the tropics. Banks of timber louvers fitted with insect screens keep the bugs out and the breeze in. A shower with double overhead roses has a glass sliding wall opening onto another one outdoors (there are actually four showers in The Villa, because one is rarely enough right?). The bathroom is palatial with a glass wall beyond the stone hot tub that looks into a high-walled garden courtyard with waterfall.

Secondly, space. There’s plenty of it. A master bedroom is dominated by a muslin curtained four poster bed. Slide back the louver doors to welcome the south easterly trade winds and enjoy the view across the deck, raised day bed and horizon edge private plunge pool which in turn flows onto grass, a beach and the ocean beyond. So much space.

Other reasons I rate The Villa highly include a pavilion living room with mini kitchen, linked to the bedroom by undercover dining area, which doubles as another bedroom with its own bathroom. There’s a full sized fridge to store fresh fruit snaffled from the organic garden nearby.

Did I mention the swimming pool? Located on the point, and therefore some distance from the main pool and restaurant area, The Villa is the only bure with its own private pool.

If your budget is a little more modest, ocean front bures, both one and two bedroom are spacious, beautifully appointed and oh so romantic. I particularly like Bure 24’s layout and island view, though another repeat offender swears by Bure 5. Limited to 25 bures, there are actually no bad ones.

But the main reason I rate JMC so highly is for the intangibles. With a strong environmental focus, a team of warm, hospitable staff and an ethos of sustainable tourism that supports the local community, JMC offers a holiday with heart. The place just has a good soul – you can feel it. Much like Fiji itself.

Take a Road Trip in Australia

Travel Writer Fiona Harper explains why jumping in the car and taking a road trip in Australia makes for a fantastic holiday - and shares her favourite Aussie drives. 

Do you remember Jack Nicolson in the movie As Good as it Gets? Playing eccentric, obsessive-compulsive Melvin, he was rather nervous about an impromptu road trip with Carol whom he rather fancied and Simon whom he didn’t. He had prepared a carefully labelled playlist tagged to ‘get things going’ or for use as ‘icebreakers’ as the three of them settled into leather seats and drove out of New York bound for good times and noodle salad. I can’t watch that movie without wishing I too was heading off on an extended road trip.

Growing up in country West Australia, family holidays always included a road trip: we rarely flew anywhere. Three kids on the back seat, plus the dog (sometimes a hitchhiker too). Border collie crossbreed Poochie was always first in the car whenever it looked like Team Harper was hitting the road and was never left behind. Except for that one time, in Whyalla I think it was after crossing the Nullarbor Plain, when Dad somehow managed to drive off without her, creating buckets of hysterical tears from the back seat when we realised. We went back though and thankfully found her, welcoming her return into our back seat bunker with delirious delight.

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Usually we’d have a caravan hitched behind us, which back then were all bubble-like curves with oversized windows. Actually the windows were so large I managed to roll right out of one, landing with a thud on the dirt one night while asleep on the top bunk. But that’s a story Mum would rather I not tell (sorry Mum, I have). Later, our family moved to the Pilbara and road trips became more adventurous as we ventured off road, billowing clouds of fine ochre dust coating us, the camper trailer and everything packed inside it. Poochie was still with us, her white coat tinted as red as our feet, swimming alongside us in freshwater streams, clamouring up cliffs, chasing lizards or sleeping exhausted beside the campfire while Mum prepared dinner on the camp stove.

Fast forward 30 years and despite open skies and low cost airlines encouraging us to fly hither and thither, I still love the thrill of hitting the road. Whether that road is paved with asphalt, dirt, gravel or bulldust, it’s the lure of the unknown that is so enticing. No matter whether the verge is bordered by architecturally miserable roadhouses or primeval rainforest, once in the car it’s kind of like having your own private ticket to ride, destination unknown. Sure maps, apps and guidebooks have quashed some of the mystery but they’ve also made driving off into the unknown a whole lot more fun (and safe) too.

So where are my favourite Australian drives? The Great Ocean Road in Victoria remains a firm favourite, so too Queensland’s Captain Cook Highway flanked by reef and rainforest between Cairns and Port Douglas. The Gold Coast Hinterland has the Scenic Rim, all craggy dormant volcanic peaks clad with rainforest, while further north and inland from the Sunshine Coast Steve Irwin Way winds through the Glasshouse Mountains. Out west the Cape to Cape route rambles through award winning vineyards, karri forest and small towns, hugging the coast in parts, rolling through farmland in others. In Tasmania, just about every outing is worthy of ‘road trip’ status the whole state is so damn pretty, but I am rather fond of the Huon Trail south of Hobart that meets up with the car-carrying barge to Bruny Island.

We’re awfully fortunate in Australia to have such splendid road infrastructure. Hitting the road, whether for a few weeks or a few hours really is as good as it gets.

2014 Yearly Horoscopes

What do the stars have in store for you? Get your complete astrological predictions for 2014 from our resident Astrology expert Kelli Fox.

ARIES


Inventive Uranus keeps moving through your Image Sector. You won’t look or behave like anyone else this year. At times, this will attract favorable attention. At other times, it will get you into trouble. Either way, it’s important to establish yourself as an independent person. Continue to speak your mind and dress the way you want. Saturn, the planet of restriction, continues to tour your Shared Resources Sector. Your nearest and dearest may be threatened by your rebellious attitude, but it can’t be helped. Ultimately, they will respect your revolutionary ways. Stick to your guns.


TAURUS


You continue to change and evolve throughout 2014, especially in the area of your appearance. How you present yourself to the world is crucial to your success. Develop a look that resonates with your taste and sensibility. Don’t imitate a magazine ideal if you look better with a little meat on your bones. If you’re unhappy with your name, consider changing it. Are you tired of dressing conservatively? Add items to your wardrobe that enhance your best features. Look within for the answers you seek, rather than depending on the outside world for information.


GEMINI


With dreamy Neptune continuing to travel through your Career Sector, you have an opportunity to shine in a creative industry. The arts, fashion, film, advertising…the choice is yours. Alternately, you might decide to take a job at a charitable organization, since Neptune symbolizes compassion. It looks as though you might be able to land a position with a good salary, thanks to generous Jupiter’s transit through your Moneymaking Sector between January 1st and July 16th. If you already have a job you enjoy, be sure to lobby for a raise during the first half of the year.


CANCER


Your self-confidence and optimism will attract good fortune through July 15th, when jovial Jupiter tours your Image Sector. It will be easy to wrap people around your little finger at this time. Use this opportunity to ask for favors, show off your talent, and make friends with very important people. If you can conceive it, you can achieve it. Jupiter moves into your Moneymaking Sector on July 16th, attracting all sorts of lucrative financial opportunities. Ventures related to education, entertainment, and gambling are especially favored, but you can find success in virtually any area.


LEO


Solitary pursuits can provide tremendous pleasure between January 1st and July 15th, thanks to upbeat Jupiter’s tour of your Spirituality Sector. Spend as much time as possible reading, writing and communing with nature. Material matters probably won’t seem very important during this phase. On July 16th, Jupiter enters your Image Sector, which may boost your energy and enthusiasm. Your positive energy will open new doors in virtually every realm. This would also be a great period to launch a dramatic makeover. A new hairstyle, fashionable wardrobe or cosmetic procedure could greatly enhance your natural star power. Go ahead and splurge on your appearance.


VIRGO


On April 28th, a Solar Eclipse falls in your Adventure Sector, suggesting you may be in for an overseas trip. Visiting a city by the sea is highly favored. Any endeavor aimed at expanding your horizons is favored at this time. Friends will be very supportive of your desire to explore greener pastures, since generous Jupiter will be touring your Social Sector at this time, all the way up until July 16th. During this phase, you’ll receive plenty of invitations. Be sure to attend as many parties, get-togethers and professional conferences as possible during the first seven months of the year, because who you know may be a determining factor to your success.


LIBRA


2014 may prove to be an eventful year for you. From January 1st through July 25th, action-oriented Mars will be moving through your Image Sector. You’ll be more assertive throughout this period, refusing to defer to others. Demanding what you want will create conflict at times, but it will also make you happier and more successful. Expansive Jupiter will be touring your Career Sector between January 1st and July 15th, making this an ideal time to go after a high-powered position or dream job. Since creative Neptune will be touring your Work Sector all year, it looks as though the arts and entertainment field will yield the most fruit as far as career choices.


SCORPIO


2014 may be a year of profound and exciting transformations for you. Expansive Jupiter moves into your Career Sector on July 16th, fueling your ambition. Take this opportunity to go after a high-profile job that involves an element of glamour. Opportunities related to luxury goods, the performing arts, and childcare are all favored. A Solar Eclipse on October 23rd will electrify your Image Sector. This is a wonderful opportunity to get a head-to-toe makeover, revamp your wardrobe or undergo a cosmetic procedure. Nobody could ever accuse you of being shallow, but looking your best will lift your spirits and lighten your mood. Use the powerful energy of this eclipse to enact a magical metamorphosis.


SAGITTARIUS


Two heads are better than one during the first seven months of 2014. That’s because Jupiter, your ruling planet, will be touring your Intimacy Sector. A close relationship could bring tremendous happiness. If you’re single, you could benefit from a grant, loan or scholarship, since lending institutions could be particularly generous at this time. There’s even a chance you’ll receive an inheritance or some other sort of financial windfall. On July 16th, Jupiter will move in to your Adventure Sector, prompting you to do something expansive. Publishing a book, travelling abroad and getting an advanced degree are among the possibilities.


CAPRICORN


2014 may be a year of dramatic highs and lows. On April 14th, a Lunar Eclipse will fall in your Career Sector, possibly bringing an end to a job or work assignment. Try not to panic. This may be the Universe’s way of bringing some much-needed balance to your life. A Solar Eclipse on April 28th may put you on the path to romance. If you’re single, you could meet someone special. Are you already in a relationship? Your partner could surprise you with a fabulous vacation. Building a strong partnership with someone special will be very important, thanks to expansive Jupiter’s tour of your Relationship Sector between January 1st and July 15th. Work can stay on the back burner during this romantic time.


AQUARIUS


2014 continues to be a year of risk-taking. That’s because disruptive Uranus, your ruling planet, is moving through your Communication Sector. Setting yourself apart from the crowd may be imperative. If that means speaking up against the consensus, so be it. Public approval won’t mean much to you. You’re more interested in marching to the beat of your own drummer. This desire for comfort could pay off on April 28th, when a Solar Eclipse energizes your Home and Family Sector. A family member may offer you a new beginning or alternatively, finding a new place to live over the coming months will be a priority.


PISCES


You’ll continue to experience great sensitivity throughout 2014, thanks to Neptune, your ruling planet, traveling through your Image House. Your psychic abilities may be further enhanced and your imaginative powers will soar to an all-time high. This is a wonderful opportunity to dance, write, paint, design and perform. Attaining star power in a creative field is very possible. You’ll get additional support for artistic endeavors from expansive Jupiter, which moves through your Creative Sector from January 1st through July 15th. This is one of the best years in a while to attain your artistic goals.

14 Things Our Parents Taught Us About Love

I admit Jerry Springer isn’t the soundest purveyor of wisdom, but my parents’ relationship reinforces those (considering the content of his show, ultra-ironic) words he offered at every episode’s end: “Take care of yourself…and each other.”
As parents, my mom and dad are so selfless and invested, I think as spouses they often lack the emotional energy for themselves or their relationship. Here’s hoping the new empty-nesters can follow Sage Springer’s advice, even more apropos because my dad’s name is JE-RRY, JE-RRY, JE-RRY.

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I asked readers, “What did your parents teach you about love?” Here’s what they said:

1. Being a good listener is the best way to show someone you love them.

2. Love is work, not an emotion. But just because it's work doesn't mean it isn't a lot of fun.

3. My dad always said to look at the way a boy treats his mother and you'll see exactly (well, almost exactly) how he'll treat you.

4. It's not like in the movies.

5. Indeed, love is patient. But love is also very silly and enjoys giggling.

6. We are imperfect beings. Why should we expect love to be perfect?

7. My dad taught me dependence, and my mom taught me independence. Thankfully, she had a much larger influence over my life than he did. Mom always told me to love myself first.

8. Having separate hobbies and activities is important because personal time is a necessity for surviving life.

9. Love is not an experience; it is a process of growth.

10. My mom, out of bitterness, told me that love is not enough for a marriage.

11. Put your marriage first—before your children—because a strong marriage is the foundation for raising a happy family.

12. Trust and love are synonymous.

13. Don't get pregnant.

14. Women are always right. And I'm right about her being right, so I also win.

What You Shouldn't Tell Your Friends About Your Relationship

A post on BlogHer last week argued that our friendships could be jeopardizing our relationships. You know, that swift and sexy friends could swoop in on your SO like a love-starved vulture with their suitcase of privileged information you’ve been telling them casually over coffee. The issue here is that the rules BlogHer outlines on how to safeguard your relationship’s secrets are only applicable to friends we’re kinda sorta attracted to.
Those Ryan Gosling-next-door type friends who we’d really rather stay single. But surely there are friends who we have only the cuddliest of platonic feelings for that we should still keep from the inner workings of our love life. Before you reveal your partner’s penis size to the millimeter or divulge your girlfriend’s sexts to a group of pals, read this list of what to screen from even the best of friends.

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Do you have major underlying resentments toward your partner because he's been unemployed for months? Does the fact that he choked you in bed without asking permission really shake you to your core? If only your friends know about these huge, welling emotions inside you, it won’t do your relationship any good. It’s basic stuff: Your friend shouldn’t know things about your relationship that the person in your relationship doesn’t know about. Before you pick apart the same aspect of your relationship perennially with a friend, ask yourself if your partner has been given the full opportunity to change. If you find yourself always discussing conflicts that your partner doesn’t even know you have with him or your life together, then you probably just want to gossip with your friends.

The Ins and Outs of Your Sex Life
I get it: some friends are exhibitionist storytellers who live for the overshare. But the sexual intimacy you create within your relationship is only stronger if it’s not shared with everyone you know and her half-brother. Sex is almost better when the gory (sweaty?) details are left between you and yours.

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How Much Money Your Partner Makes
You don’t want your friends weighing in on your relationship or judging your SO based on whether he shops thrift or at Bloomingdale’s. Also, it’s absolutely none of their business and inappropriate for you to volunteer the information.

Every Stupid Spat You Have
Think of complaining about your partner to your friends like it’s chili powder. It’s useful in small amounts, but it should really be used sparingly. When you report every small argument you have over who last vacuumed or who watched the last three episodes of Law and Order: SVU on Netflix, it’s going to get old. Once more, you’re slowly building an army of friends who detest your partner. Your harmless daily bickering might not amount to much for you, but if it’s all your friends hear, they might start to wonder why you don’t just dump the jerk who once insinuated you were fat. The more minutiae you filter out, the more easily your friends will be able to dispense good and accurate advice when it comes to the major league problems.

Your Partner’s Life History
If your lover tells you a very personal aspect of his life story during pillow talk or after years of dating, it’s not within your right to share that with all your closest pals. When you let all your friends in on your partner’s mom’s breast cancer scare or his history of childhood abuse, you’re breaking the trust of your relationship. Your partner told you those things because there's enough comfort in the relationship to open up about really difficult topics, not because of a desire to invite a round-table discussion on personal issues a la The View. The heavy conversations between you and your SO should be in a relationship safe zone. Your friends should understand.

Private Correspondence Between You and Your SO
Your boyfriend didn’t send the text, “Hey baby, I think we should talk tonight. That thing you said last night really bugged me,” to Margaret, Jen, and Alex, so they really don't need to see it. Keep the emails, texts, midnight voice mails, and, yes, nude selfies away from your friends’ eyes. Did you know that some revenge porn is actually posted by friends of friends of ex-lovers that have passed along the photo through email forwarding? Yeah, it makes you think twice.

Why I signed up for Obamacare

Late last week, I became one of the 189,000 New Yorkers to sign up on New York state's partner exchange, NY State of Health. New York is one of 14 states that elected to set up its own exchange rather than rely on the federal government to do so. It is also one of the states that have accepted the Medicaid expansion.
In other words, New York, led by a popular Democratic governor, Andrew Cuomo, is all-in on Obamacare, and I decided to go along for the ride. I did this despite being opposed to Obamacare, and I am increasingly convinced that it will eventually have to be either drastically reformed or replaced outright.

Hardly anyone denies that Obamacare is in trouble. Though enrollment in the new exchanges has increased in recent weeks, it has still fallen far short of expectations. Many households that had purchased individual insurance policies in the past have had their policies canceled, and it is widely expected that many small business will receive cancellation notices in the year to come.

Last year, the Obama administration argued before the Supreme Court that the individual mandate was so essential to the success of the Affordable Care Act that it was inseverable. Yet last week the Department of Health and Human Services announced that it would not enforce the mandate against the not inconsiderable number of Americans who've had their policies canceled.

The Medicaid expansion has succeeded in providing more low-income Americans with insurance coverage, though not in the more than 20 states that have so far refused to take part in it. President Barack Obama and his allies had expected that as Obamacare implementation demonstrated the benefits of the new health law, the public would come to embrace it.

A new CNN/ORC International survey instead finds that 62% oppose the law, an increase of 4 percentage points since November. So far, at least, it seems as though the more familiar people become with Obamacare and its consequences, the less they like it.

ike most Americans, I am an Obamacare critic, and I've been making the case against the President's approach to coverage expansion since it started to take shape. This isn't because I oppose government's role in helping people secure insurance coverage.

I'm convinced that we would be far better off as a country if all Americans had enough health insurance to protect themselves from financial disaster, and that government can and should provide a health safety net.

But Obamacare does both more and less than that. It limits innovation by insurers and providers that can help contain costs. It leaves many of the most dysfunctional aspects of America's health system, such as the monopoly power of big medical providers, largely untouched.

It treats different households with the same income levels very differently, depending on how they happen to buy insurance. Its sliding-scale subsidies provide at least some families on the exchanges with a strong disincentive against earning more income. And by raising the bar for what counts as acceptable private insurance, there's a real risk that it will lead to a net decrease in the number of people who have private insurance.

When I envision an ideal health system, I don't doubt that it would involve insurance marketplaces where consumers can compare different policies to make informed decisions. That is what the insurance exchanges are at their best. The big problem with the Obamacare exchanges is that they don't give insurers the option of offering consumers a wide range of products suited to their needs, and they don't offer enough flexibility on pricing.

Obamacare's defenders often claim that conservatives are hypocritical to oppose the law because it relies on the kind of insurance marketplaces that conservatives favor. What these critics miss is that the problem isn't having insurance marketplaces per se. Rather, Obamacare is narrowly constraining the kind of products available on the marketplaces, and in doing it is pricing a fair number of cost-conscious consumers out of the market, even after factoring in subsidies.

I should also note that I don't think Republicans have great solutions for America's health care woes either.

During the 2008 presidential campaign, Sen. John McCain introduced a controversial plan for coverage expansion that I greatly admired and which the Democrats fiercely attacked. Ever since then, Republicans have been extremely gun-shy about offering ambitious health reform proposals of their own.

I was sympathetic to the Massachusetts coverage expansion law that passed in 2006 under then-Gov. Mitt Romney, which struck me as a reasonable solution for an affluent state with a small uninsured population. (The Massachusetts experiment hasn't turned out as well as I had hoped, but that's a story for another day.)

And I've advocated a number of reforms designed to expand coverage, such as more federal funding for high-risk pools, federal and state reinsurance programs designed to make insurance more affordable and tax reforms designed to limit the health insurance tax subsidies that flow to high-income households while increasing those that flow to low- and middle-income households. None of these reforms is cheap, which is why they are opposed by the many of the same Republican lawmakers who oppose Obamacare.

Eventually, the GOP is going to have to recognize that any durable health care fix is going to cost money -- less than Obamacare, perhaps, but not nothing. For now, however, millions of Americans like me who don't believe that Obamacare is the right way forward for the country will have to learn to live with it.

For all my concerns about the Obamacare exchanges, I will say that as a healthy (knock on wood) New York City resident who is not eligible for subsidies, my experience with NY State of Health has been a good one. The reason is that New York state had already made a mess of its individual insurance market before Obamacare, and Obamacare might actually make it better, at least temporarily.

New York is one of relatively few states in which average premiums will be substantially lower in Obamacare's first year then they have been in the recent past, as Avik Roy of the Manhattan Institute observed in November. Roy estimates that average premiums in New York will decline by 40% under Obamacare, the biggest decline in the country. They will increase by 179 percent in Nevada, the state with the biggest increase.

So why are premiums going down in New York?

New York -- like Maine, New Jersey, Vermont, Washington and Massachusetts -- already has regulations on the books that impose community-rating and guaranteed issue on all insurers. That is, insurers have to accept all comers, regardless of health status, and they are strictly limited in the extent to which they can charge different consumers different amounts for insurance. But these states, with the exception of Massachusetts since its 2006 health law went into effect, don't impose a mandate.

The result has been that sick people have flocked to the individual insurance market while healthy people have avoided it at all cost, and this in turn has led to higher premiums.

By pushing healthy people to buy coverage, the individual mandate allowed insurers to lower premiums in the individual market in Massachusetts, and insurers are betting that it will do the same in New York. Indeed, some researchers have called New York state a "poster child" for the individual mandate.

The question for insurers and New Yorkers buying coverage on the exchanges is whether the relatively low premiums on the New York state exchange are sustainable.

If the individual mandate is never enforced (a very real possibility), insurers could find themselves losing enormous sums of money as the problems that plagued New York's individual insurance market in the past reassert themselves. (There are, to be sure, more attractive alternatives to the individual mandate that state governments might embrace, like default insurance.)

People often accuse conservatives of rooting for Obamacare to fail. I'm personally rooting for an outcome in which all Americans can have access to affordable health coverage. I'm just deeply skeptical that Obamacare is the best way to achieve that goal.

But if I'm wrong, if Obamacare and the new health insurance exchanges turn out to be a great success, I will be among the beneficiaries.

Health Insurance To Start Jan. 1

With three weeks left in the year, not one of the thousands of Massachusetts residents who need to enroll in new health insurance plans by Jan. 1 has been able to do so through the state insurance marketplace that was revamped to comply with the national Affordable Care Act.


About 126,000 people enrolled in health plans subsidized by the state have until March to choose a new plan and can keep their current coverage until then. But thousands of others are depending on a new plan to start on the first of the year, and some worry that their coverage will not be ready in time. Their anxiety has only been heightened by stubborn technical problems, such as a snag this week that blocked many people from signing in to the website.

Gina Kamentsky of Somerville has been trying to enroll through the Massachusetts Health Connector for weeks. Her insurance plan, bought through her partner’s former employer, expires this month. Because of expensive medications and a doctor’s appointment she cannot miss, the 54-year-old artist from Somerville said she needs coverage in January. Plus, the landmark 2006 state health insurance law, the model for the national law, requires her and most others to have coverage.

Kamentsky was first stymied by the widespread technological problems. At the end of October, she filed a paper application. She has been stuck since then in a shuffle of documents and on long calls with customer support staff, but she feels no closer to being enrolled.

“There’s no feedback,” she said. “There’s no way to tell if anything has been processed. Time is ticking away.”

More than 32,000 people have been able to complete an application. Only about 1,700 have selected a health plan.

A small number have been able to submit payment information online, bringing them near full enrollment, but the state will not process those payments until Dec. 23.

The Connector Authority will mail invoices starting next week, said executive director Jean Yang. That leaves little time for customers to return a check or credit card information and for the Connector Authority to deliver payments to insurers, with all information needed to create accounts and finalize enrollment.

“Obviously time is tight,” Yang said. “At the same time, we are working extremely closely with the carriers, so that they know what’s coming.”

The $69 million website was built by CGI, which helped develop the much-maligned federal health insurance site, HealthCare.gov. The Health Connector website, by communicating with federal databases and the state Medicaid program, was meant to give users a place where they could find out which insurance subsidies they qualify for. But that function of the website has not worked.

Many people who applied for a subsidy are in a holding pattern, waiting for the Connector Authority to verify their eligibility so they can shop for a plan. Yang said Health Connector staff and contractors are working to find the fixes necessary to make online verification possible and, in the meantime, to identify applicants who need coverage starting Jan. 1.

Many people already receiving state insurance subsidies — through Commonwealth Care, the Medical Security Program for people who are unemployed, and the Insurance Partnership for small business employees — must re-enroll in a new plan, but the state extended the deadline for that group from Dec. 23 until March 24, giving them three more months on their current plans.

As many as 15,000 people who have completed applications do not fall into that category, and an unknown number of them could be uninsured on Jan. 1 if they are not enrolled through the Health Connector.

Yang said CGI has increased the number of people working on the website, and the Connector Authority plans to boost the number of customer service representatives to as many as 190 by the end of December, up from about 65 last month.

“We are not happy with the situation; there’s no question about it,” Yang said. “We look at the vendors critically. We look at ourselves critically. We ask ourselves every day how fast can we make things better.”

Nationally, insurers have expressed frustration that the enrollment records sent by the federal website have been inaccurate. Yang said the state is preparing a back-up plan to deliver data in a spreadsheet or a similar format if the state’s website fails on that front, too.

Typically, insurers need seven to 10 days to set up an account and get insurance cards and an enrollment packet to new customers, said Eric Linzer, spokesman for the Massachusetts Association of Health Plans. But the carriers sometimes receive information about new enrollments up to the last day of the month. The state has not approached carriers about any possibility of missing its deadline for January enrollees, Linzer said.

“The plans are going to be working very hard to make sure that members have what they need for coverage that’s effective Jan. 1,” he said.

But the state may already be short on time, said Bill Fields, a business consultant who works with companies on insurance compliance. Insurers may process the occasional case on the last day of the month, but he figures that the bulk of enrollments must to be sent to carriers by about the end of next week to be processed in time.

“This is a mess,” Fields said. “The sad thing is that the people who are going to get hurt are the people that they’re trying to help.”

Carrie Murray of Abington completed the application process for her family of five on Tuesday. Murray has been buying unsubsidized coverage through the Health Connector since June, when her husband started his own architectural firm. That plan expires this month. After months of grappling with the Health Connector website, Murray finished applying over the phone. Now, she is waiting on an invoice and is still anxious.

“I don’t know if I’m going to get the paperwork in time,” she said. “And, then once I pay the check, will that go through in time.”

Connector administrators need to communicate more directly with the public to explain what challenges they are facing and what they are doing to fix them, said Brian Rosman, research director for Health Care for All, the Boston-based consumer group. But, he said, he is confident that the agency will find ways to keep people like Kamentsky and Murray from falling through the cracks.



“They’ve told us they will, and there’s no reason to think that they won’t,” he said. “They have to.”


How to Make Magnetic Nail Polish






Yay! Sally Hansen's new magnetic polish is a real metallic mood for summer! it makes perfect sense after you've seen how awesome the scientific process looks on your finger nails. After holding the magnetic bottle top over a wet coast of polish, the color becomes striated, almost as if it were undulating with the waves of a metallic forcefield. I'm geeking out! And since I hate playing it safe with simple solids, this series of polishes is the perfect solution to my craving for a little crazy. Check out the rest in this video and store from where you can get it






DIY Wire Rings by Secret Life of a Fashion Nerd




If you've been enjoying the latest trend of wearing rings above the knuckle, this DIY from Secret Life of a Fashion Nerd is for you!




 


9 Step Dark Smokey Eye Tutorial

Today, I did a super easy black smokey eye. Here's what it looked like:






Products used:

NYX Jumbo Eye Pencil in Milk (white base)

Mac kohl eyeliner (black) - similar here

 
Everyday Minerals eyeshadow in Bundled Up (white brow highlight) - similar here

 
Rock & Republic eyeshadow in Fatalistic (black shadow)

 
Rimmel Glam Eyes mascara in extra black (fav EVER!)



Enjoy!  And if you feel like it, share it!




8 Step Makeup Tutorial

This is probably my trademark look. I am not shy to colour, but I love neutrals for everyday. This look is super easy to do and takes only about 10 mins once you've mastered it.

I used:
Brown: Mac eyeshadow in Espresso (I also love Rock & Republic's eyeshadow in Tribal)
Base/ivory:  Rock & Republic eyeshadow in Veil
Eyeliner: Rimmel Soft Kohl eyeliner in Black
Mascara: Rimmel Glam Eyes in Black. My absolute FAV mascara ever!


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Brown: Mac eyeshadow in Espresso (I also love Rock

Lose 26 Pounds Eating at Home

Does this sound like you?
“I am so frustrated with my ability to lose weight. I exercise 5 days per week, and still can’t seem to lose weight. I make all the right choices when eating out, too.”

Think about how many times you eat out. As simple as it seems, eating half (or more) of your meals at restaurants can make it extremely difficult to lose weight even if you “make the right choice”.


We often lose track of how many meals we are eating out, and then seem mystified as to why we can’t see the pounds drop.


Restaurants sneak in extra oils, butters, and mystery sauces creating high calorie foods.


By cutting 2 tablespoons of butter or oil, you can save 200 to 300 calories. That equals half a pound of weight loss every week!


At restaurants, you don’t have as much control over the portion that is on your plate. When at home, you can easily follow the half plate vegetable rule.


However, the restaurants will serve up double or triple what you need to eat for a meal, and likely, not enough vegetables. You can also use smaller plates at home.


Make sure to plan out your grocery shopping list and the meals that you will have for the week. When we fail to plan, it is easy to resort to take-out food.


The extra 10 minutes is worth it—for your health and wallet! You will be trimming your waistline and your budget.


The key to succeeding is to be committed. Stick to the rule of eating from home, and your health will improve.


Here are a few of my favorite healthy recipe websites for home cooking:


Do you have any tricks for eating at home more?

TOP 7 SKIN CARE BRANDS I LOVE





Skin Care Brands — there are so many on the market, chances are, you feel like you’ve thrown loads of money away on products that just don’t work. Well, no more! I’ve sampled and tested literally dozens of brands, and narrowed my faves to just a few, and I’d love to share my hard-earned expertise. Here are my top 7 skin care brands I love.







1. MURAD
Murad is hands-down my favorite skin care brand, and I use several of their products every day! My favorite are the acne and anti-aging products, especially the Acne & Wrinkle Reducer. My skin has never looked so radiant and healthy!


2. PHILOSOPHY
I also adore the Philosophy line of skin care products, completely different from the Murad skin care brand. While Murad focuses on fighting fine lines and wrinkles and acne, Philosophy seems more concerned with soft skin, and lush, sweet, gorgeous scents.




3. CLEAN & CLEAR
This is an excellent budget-conscious skin care brand, one you can probably find at your local drug or even grocery store. Looking for a good, inexpensive moisturizer? Try the Clean & Clear Dual Action Moisturizer, which fights acne and keeps your skin hydrated and happy.


4. BLISS
This brand is made for young people who want healthy skin for the rest of their lives. If you start using Bliss while you’re in your teens and twenties, you’ll be off to a great start, making habits that will keep your skin looking and feeling good for decades to come!


5. ORIGINS
I like Origins as a skin care brand because they offer something delightful for every skin type. Everything in their line-up is organic, with lush essential oils, promoting healthy skin and overall wellness.


6. BURT’S BEES
My love affair with the Burt’s Bees skin care brand began with their original lip balm, and has spread to other products. Their lotions and salves are divine, comforting and healing even the roughest, driest skin, even in winter.


7. FRESH
I absolutely adore the Brown Sugar Body Scrub and everything in their lemon collection. Everything they make smells gorgeous, and works like magic, leaving my skin soft and supple and ready for anything!


Stick to those skin care brands, and every penny you invest will be money well spent! My very favorites are Murad and Philosophy, but all of these are excellent! Which of these skin care brands have you used, and which do you love? Or is there another skin care brand you can recommend, or warn us away from? Do tell!

10 Amazing Tips For Having Perfect Skin Sans Makeup



Perfect skin without makeup is something we all want. Let’s be real, it feels good knowing you look great without having to pile on concealer and foundation to hide the blemishes and imperfections of your skin. Of course we all know it is important to wash our face every day, but there are a few other things you can do to help you have perfect skin sans makeup. Here are some great tips for looking gorgeous even when you have makeup free skin.



1. SUN PROTECTION



As much as I love the sun and soaking up rays, I know it does major damage to my skin. The truth is, long term sun exposure can lead to age spots, wrinkles, and other skin problems. This is why I always wear sunblock and protective clothing.


2. NO SMOKING

Do you really need another reason not to smoke? Besides all the serious health risks, smoking causes wrinkles and makes you look older. When you smoke your skin loses oxygen and important nutrients. Smoking also causes the skin to lose collagen and elastin. The loss of these things leads to wrinkles and skin damage. If you want perfect skin without makeup, you really need to cut out the nicotine.

3. LESS BATH TIME

If you want perfect skin sans makeup, then you need to spend less time in the bath or shower. The hot water removes the essential oil from your skin. These oils help keep the skin moisturized naturally. To avoid damage limit the amount of time you bathe and opt for warm water instead of hot water.

4. NO STRONG SOAPS

Strong soaps can also remove essential oils from the skin. This makes your skin dry. Get perfect skin by switching to a mild cleanser, one without harsh chemicals or abrasive ingredients. There are a lot of really great natural options, a lot of them with extra moisturizing properties.

5. BE CAREFUL SHAVING

Remember, gorgeous makeup free skin isn’t relegated to your face. Shaving is another way to damage skin. Always use some sort of shaving cream to protect and lubricate the skin. Remember to shave in the direction of the hair growth, not against it.

6. DON’T RUB DRY

Believe it or not, but you may need to change how you dry off to have perfect skin without makeup. You shouldn’t rub your skin dry. Instead, blot or pat the skin. Rubbing can remove your skin’s natural oils, but patting helps keeps the oil on your skin.

7. ALWAYS MOISTURIZE

If your skin is dry, don’t forget to moisturize. Look for a good moisturizer that fits your skin type. If you need help determining your skin type, you can talk to a dermatologist or even an associate in the skincare department of the better department stores.  It’s essential to determine whether you have dry, oily, or combination skin when you choose a moisturizer, though.

8. EAT HEALTHY

What you eat really does affect your skin. If you want perfect skin sans makeup, try to eat plenty of fruits and vegetables. Also fill your diet with whole grains and lean protein. Avoid high fat and processed foods. Following a healthy diet will help you gain younger, perfect looking skin.

9. MANAGE STRESS

Stress can cause acne breakouts. If you have stress in your life, do your best to manage that stress. Cut back on your to-do list. Pass some of the responsibilities to someone else, and take part in activities you enjoy.

10. WASH YOUR FACE DAILY

Of course you already know this, but it is worth repeating. You can’t get perfect skin without makeup if you don’t wash your face every day. Leaving the dirt and oil on your face can cause your pores to clog and fill with bacteria, which leads to blackheads and pimples.

Follow these 10 tips for perfect skin and you are sure to see an improvement in your skin quickly. We all want perfect skin, making a few changes should be easy. Do you have some other tips for perfect skin without makeup? Please share.

8 FUN NAIL POLISH TRENDS FOR SUMMER …





Summer is here and I’m on the prowl for the best nail polish trends for summer. I plan to be out and about all summer long. I will be seeing many old friends and plenty of new faces too. I don’t want to be caught with my nails looking shabby this summer and I’m sure you don’t either. Check out these fabulous nail trends for summer I found for us.




1. OMBRE NAILS





I love this look.They say to paint the colors on to a damp makeup sponge and then press on to each nail. Clean up the edges and finish with a top coat. How simple is that?




2. DIY NAIL STICKERS





They are just filled with great ideas over there. Who would of thought a little polish and tape would make perfect geometric shapes stickers for your nails.




3. MARBLE NAILS





 I am sure will become a quickly popular nail polish trend this summer. Imagine getting this look with some bright pinks, orange, and yellows. So fabulous!




4. GLITTER NAILS





Do you like glitter? I love glitter! I put glitter on anything I can. Why would I not put glitter on my nails? Fortunately glitter is the perfect summer nail polish trend.


5. PASTELS





Pastels are good too. It’s light, fresh and simple. You can wear pastels with just about any summer outfit. Your nails may not be the talk of the town but rest-assured they won’t go unnoticed.


6. CRACKLED FINISH





Many A-list celebs are sporting this summer nail polish trend already. You will find Katy Perry and Serena Williams with fabulous crackled nails. Many nail polish brands carry their own crackled polish. You just apply the crackled finish over any color of your choice and the crackled polish dries leaving your nails hot and trendy. Try mixing up a few colors and tell me what you like best.


7. BOLD





It’s summer and it’s time to go bold. If some of these nail polish trends weren’t bold enough for you then go for it all the way. Try bright neon yellow or orange for a perfect summer look.


8. CLEAN AND NATURAL






If bold isn’t your thing, don’t worry, natural is always in style. The trick is to keep your nails clean and well-manicured. Keep them in shape and smooth. Add a clear top coat for a little shine or just buff them out. Every now and then my nails need a little break from polish. I love going for a clean and natural look too.

Nail polish trends are all the rage this summer. With such a vast number of current trends out there you are sure to find something that will suit you well. Which of these nail polish trends are your favorites? What will we you wearing this summer?





20 Uses For Vaseline - A Girl's Best Friend






You might be surprised of all of the things Vaseline can do for you. It just celebrated its 141st birthday, so there must be a reason why it has lasted through all of these years!

1. It makes your eyelashes grow:  Lather Vaseline all over your eyelashes overnight and watch them thicken, even without a prescription!

2. To Soften dry and cracked elbows.

3. Dry cuticles: Store a mini-Vaseline container in your purse and utilize for emergency dry cuticle moments.

4. For kissable, luscious lips: Fall is a beast for drying out summary, dewy lips. Vaseline is there for you and your irresistible pout. You can also mix Vaseline with Kool-Aid powder and make a colored (and flavored) lip gloss.

5. To Help your scent stay: Softly rub Vaseline all over your perfume points (i.e. the cleav, behind the ear, neck, wrist) and your scent will last longer!

6. It is a misconception that Vaseline clogs pores, so smear it all over your face, neck and arms for softer skin.

7. Lipstick Smudges: Spread a little Vaseline over your teeth and lipstick smudges be gone!

8.To remove last nights battlefield makeup: Apply some to a Q-tip and have a pretty day.

9. Perfect for an eyeshadow/blush boost: Apply some under your eye shadow for a glossy affect. Apply on the apples of your cheeks for a dewy glow. Mix with lipstick for a cream blusher!

10. It eases eyebrow plucking: Tame your eyebrows and lube up the under-skin so you can pluck with ease.

11. Prevent hair dye from seeping onto your forehead: Softly dab all over your hairline and keep that box hair dye from dying your forehead the color of your new hairdo.

12. To make your accessories look brand spankin’ new: New job interview? Scuff the crap-ol-la out of your patent leather heals thanks to pitcher night? Put a small dab on your shoes and shine away!

13. Hide Split Ends: Haven’t had a haircut since your budget only allows you go to Great Clips for a quickie? Hide damaged ends with a small amount on your ends.

14. Remove makeup stains for your clothes. Dab a little with a damp cloth.

15. To Prevent spray-tan streaks: Rub all over the backs of your knees, ankles and hands to prevent seriously frightening spray tan lines.

16. To get those O.P.I. nail polish bottles open: Is it just me or do I always try to get those babies open after I shower. Make it easier for next time and rub Vaseline under the cap. Then go ahead and do a D.I.Y manicure.

17. It’s your new exfoliating body wash: Mix with sea salt and come out of the shower feeling soft. And sexy.

18. Remove false eyelash glue from your lash line.

19. Can be used to smooth and soothe skin after shaving.

20. Lubricates ear lobes and helps to make earring insertion easy and painless.

* Bonus - For the upcoming holiday - Once you carve your Halloween pumpkin, rub Vaseline on the exposed edges. it keeps it from rotting or going dry.



source: mythirtyspot.com

 
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